Oh my lovely spam folder

I have always believed and often said this in my pravchans( that’s what my friends say for my advicesL) that this world is full of good people. And I can verify this above statement of mine by showing you all my spam folder. Yes in your mailbox you can see the genuine goodness of heart that still exists in this kalyugi duniya who is running behind this paisa, paisa n paisa……

Though I have seen this genuineness many times in my life but it’s just today that  I decided to write about this very kindness  so that u can also get to  know that how much reliable I am and how people ,even In  foreign countries trust me.J I received an e-mail from a gentleman called Adelle okins from Britain, the poor chap of an old rich businessman who has managed to accumulate a hundred million dollars in his account. Unfortunately the grand old Mr Okins died a week ago and greedy partners has been hounding master Okins , trying to get hold of money his father has hidden away. Now Mr Okins is so concerned about his safety that he wanted to transfer his father’s ill-gotten treasure, all hundred million dollars of it to a bank account in the India. Since he is surrounded by enemies, so, the only person he felt, he could trust is me,…yes me J so much reliable he thought I am to him, that he trusted a girl living in himachal Pradesh,  so far from Britain….:-) lol

His scheme is simple, he would be glad to wire all his money to my bank account with the understanding that I would, after he escapes from Britain, and give his money back. As remuneration for may effort, he would give me 10 percent of his hundred millions dollars.

Wow that sounds fascinating. Isn’t? lol needless to say, I was very flattered at this display of absolute trust from someone who had never met me and did not even know my name.  In fact I am flattered to all such offers( I guess more in hundreds now)  with the text of the letter being identical and having similar misspellings but from different people around the world.. I am really amazed how so many people in the world are so ready to part with 10 percent of their fortunes for almost nothing in return, except of cousre the privilege of transferring their money to my account. I have been even more amazed that all people, with nothing common between them, blindly trust me- humble, lovely me …ha ha

I guess now u all must have understood how much trust worthy I am…so in case anyone of you having any problem in keeping ur money safe, feel free to transfer that money to my account. See I have got international accreditation for that as well as i have international donors too…:-p:-p lol

N kindly don’t u dare to make me jealous by telling me that u people are also that much lucky to have got this international accreditation for reliability...coz mai ni chahti k mere jaisa fame n itne paise paiseo ki peshkash vo b free mai kisi aur ko ho…...;> ha ha ha….

love

“The supreme happiness of love is the conviction that we are loved”

Love is a beautiful feeling on which no one has any control, its just happens n happens without any reason,,,,these are some lines that I have often heard from my friends and family. Though I am still not so sure about it but what I have found or say have observed all over these years about love is what I want to write today …well this whole week is our love week I mean all the days are somewhere dedicate to this extra ordinary feelings called LOVE.

Though love is eternal and we can’t define it or divide it but still  for me Love is of so many types, I knw many of u might not agree with me but still for me at least I divide this love in so many parts, normal love which I define as a love between friends, cousins and relatives, special love (a ltl higher from normal) goes with our wonderful parents and siblings and then come the very common, extra ordinary love, the love for which many people often even forget their normal n special love,,,,and that is “LOVE FOR UR SOULMATE”

The most wonderful of all things in life, I believe is the discovery of another human being with whom one’s relationship has a glowing depth, beauty and joys as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is the most marvelous thing. It cannot be founded by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it, it is a sort of a divine incident.

I have utmost respect for this extraordinary feeling called love and no matter how much criticism or say havoc this love get from serials like “crime patrol or Gumraah( which is a reality though)  but still I have full faith in this magical power called love. Guys it’s a divine feeling, no one can ever force anyone to let in fall in love with the other, it’s a mutual consent.

For one human being to love another ; that is perhaps the most difficult of all our task ,the ultimate, the last test and proof ,the work for which all other work is nothing  but just a  preparation.

For those who are mingle , may your love grow more and more with each passing day J  and for those who are single , may you get your soul mates soon, just make sure you choose the right person for you and yup the greatest weakness of us humans is our hesitancy to tell other how much we love them , so  never lose any opportunity to confess your love as everyone has not that magical power to let u fall in love with her/him…so just go for and confess it……  

And as far as I am concerned Love has been very kind on me right from my childhood, I have always been loved by all, whether it’s my teachers, my neighbors, my friends, my seniors or anyone I have evr met. I have been extremely lucky to be loved by all of them .so in short my life is totally full with normal and special love., and I know, on a perfect time, it will be equally full with that extra ordinary LOVE tooJ

 

With loads of love

Kiran

this gender war

Recent gang rape aroused so much of a gender war in our nation, though I fully condemn that brutal, heinous crime by some men. They let everyone of us down, as a nation we feel ashamed of such acts happening in our nation. Protests are genuine and strong demand for new laws and speedy trials of cases are all very important at this point of time.

Though a lot has been said about men and women , news channels are full of debates on this gender discrimination but what surprised me the most or say wat saddened me   is the way whole male fraternity is condemned….slogans like “ teach your son how to behave” or “ men disrespect women” “ women are not slaves “ and all are not at all appealable to me… why the hell we are saying it for every men…I totally agree that we have crores of  cases where women were being harassed and threatened by men but still I will say every men is not the same, we also have brothers and fathers at home who also comes in the same fraternity……I am amazed to hear from young girls that “ye sabhi ladke aise hi hote hai”  “hum inke gulam nahi hai” n all…..who the hell  told us that we the women are slaves  of anybody?  Why the hell we have made so much of chaos over this male n female issue? The image that’s been going out from our recnts debates is making a very wrong impact in the mind of girls……believe me  we are not someone who should try to be as equal to men……..why we need to…..see as a women I dnt think anytym in my life I felt that I should be a men or I am inferior or anything,,,,,,,we are women and we are proud of that,,,,,,,men and women are two separate identities and it will be unfair for either one to emulate the other one……men can never be women n women can never be men…. infact I  strongly go with the quote that says “women who strive to be equal to men  lose their ambition”

Society is made up of both the genders,,no one can survive without other. Both require each other for a happy balanced life…every religion has accepted the institution of marriage as a strongest pillar. We call couples two bodies one soul…. N I believe that from every human being there rises a light that reaches straight to heaven and when two souls that are destined to be together find each other, the streams of light flow together and a single brighter light goes forth from that united being.

I get scared to just think of the kind of mentality we are growing in our children,,,so much hatred for the opposite sex....men need  to understand that women wants to be loved not raped…without women no men can survive, they are your partners not your slave, so as women, we need to understand that not every men is same.

We need love more than this hatred for each other.. from the past so many days I am hearing so many opinons of both the sexes for each other,,,,some says women are destined to be a housewife , she should cook , wash clothes n do household wrk whereas men  are  destined to work ,to look after his wife and family…..i just don’t understand the basic mentality behind such talks……. It seems there is a scorecard for both husband and wife……when will we understand that in relationships there is no scorecard ,we do little things for each other to make the other’s life easier. If I cook ,or do laundry for family its not because its my work but because of love I do it all , similarly if a husband take his wife for shopping, of if he drive for her its not coz its his job but because he loves her. They do all such things for each other in order to make other’s life easier ……..I always believe if you think of all such work as a helping the person you love ,you don’t become annoyed with doing the laundry or cookin or any task, because you are doing it out of love.

Its just make me sad whenever I hear from young girls like why will I cook or do laundry? Cant the guy do it? Or young men saying…cooking food or ironing is not my wtk, grl will do it……dnt knw how n when our daily work divided into this gender game……its just love that matters……no one is high and no one is low...both the sexes are equal and one can’t emulate other,….there is no competition,,,,,, there should be no hatred,it’s just love that need to be shared …….give respect to each other and kindly  think differently. Change your orthodox mentality and that fake pride of being a boy or girl…..we are here to live together , we have to move together in life with hand in hand and love in our heart <3 o:p="o:p">

 

Here’s my wish for all of us

May god bring us together in heart and mind as well as body,

Remove from us the temptation to criticize or be cruel

May we not be tempeted by fantasises and projections

May god guide us in the ways of holiness and save us from darkness.

 

Love

Kiran

 

that disturbing time

While writing this blog I am smiling somewhere because I the last one week it was a hell of drama for me..it’s a human nature I feel that there are some days when you have no control over your thoughts and activities. Or say you yourself surrender urself onto the circumstances….no matter how much positive you are for your life but still there comes a moment when everything seems so dark ,,,well  it happened with me n I am sure it must have happened with you all too….

I was like completely confused or say shattered for my life, it was like if u know my life is going away from my domination and someone else is running it. I don’t know what happened but  it was a hell of time…n today  in the morning Itself while speaking to one of my very close friend I found myself back in my real world. The original kiran who know what she needs to do n of course who live her life on her own terms.

 

This small blog is to all those beautiful people who often come in such tricky situations. At that particular time one don’t need to listen to long lectures from people. They just need to be heard,,,nothing else….and those who listen to them are their true soul mates or say friends.

We are the best and only best happens with us.so, no matter how much in confusion you are, take your time ,relax ,cry if u want and then come back with equal strength and love.  

And remember , if you are in love with yourselves ,thousands of people will fall in love with you. But if you are distressed, many will come to solace you but its only and only you who can change the worst situation into the best one…..

Stay happy and stay cheerful n do let these stressful moments to come , they actually make you more stronger and better person from inside.. n ofcourse they teach u a lot about life’s craziest happenings..lol

 n yup make sure if any of you who is reading this blog (I hope someone reads) come across such distressful tym,,,I am all free to listen…earlier I used to just gave pravachans but now I knw sometimes u just need to be heard ,nothing else……..:-)

 

Loads of love to all

 

Kiran.

 

those birthdays at school

Wow it’s my birthday today n finally I have successfully completed 23 years,,,,,huh  long long years, it seems budhapa nazdik hai.:-; .lol.

Well No matter how much we grow or how much old we are , childhood days are worth remembering. That craze of being a birthday girl, that imagination to see urself standing in front of the class with a packet full f toffees in hands, and all clapping and singing the famous b’day song for u ,,,,,,wow, superstar feeling.:-D

 

Now we all have cell phone so that exicetment of "who will  remember my birthday"  is slightly diminished. Facebook gives notification on many days before, we  have alarm clocks which keeps us informed on the particular day that who’s bday it is today……..but in those days, b’day was a day of testing the best friend, jinhone dekhte hi wosh kiy vo friends aur jinhe yad ni vo ainwee noraml classmates…….i remember in childhood I had friend named shilpa, once she forgets my birthday nd god knows how much she pleaded for sorry but I was like a dictator, I said  “ atti batti, sau saal ki ktti” ,,,,,,lol… i used to took seconds to break the relation and then within seconds kaati ko kaat dete the,,,,,,"katti juthi",.birthday used to be a day of  full on masti,  in short on the top wali  feeling ko pure din carry krna,,,,To  give two tofees to every student but to special ones, I mean close friends , unko do ki jagah 4 tofees dena.ha ha……here's this beautiful vodafone add that reminds me that time.......have a look....:-D

 

how I am missing all those days,,,,, how much innocence we used to have that time…treat naam ka koi shabad bhi hota hai ye to pta b ni tha,,,,ha ha . n now even a 2 year old knows whats called treat and gift,,,,,mere liye to bday k din toffee ka pkt mil jaye school maibaantne ko vahi bday hota tha…….. ha ha , time has changed so as we but still those special days can never be forgotten…..

Well thanks to my br0ther “Deepak bhardwaj” for reminding me all such days.....lol ,can’t express how much happy I am just to remind all those school days  that i am constantly smilng  writng this post,,,,,,

 

 

Will miss forever those beautiful days. Thanks to god and parents who gave us this opportunity to enjoy that school life. Must admit this , school friends are the  best friends one can have,,,,,though later in college ,in office we came in contact with so many people. Get close to certain people…but yet those school buddies are the best of all ……:-D

To all my  school friends who are on facebook  or not,  my school kendriya vidya ,kasauli n ofcourse saraswati niketan……..i rember you all…..

For all those who has similar feelings can write a reply …….

N Yup for all my friends( school tym, college tym, ofc wale, travelling lk time milne wale, camp wale ya SSB wale) BIG big thanks to all of u for wishing me on my birthday and to make this day a special one.

 

Love

Kiran.

our reaction matters a lot

Life is presenting every person and circumstance to us so that we can choose what we love and what we don’t love. When we react to anything, we are reacting with our feelings and as we do we are choosing it! Our reaction, whether good or bad, sticks it with us. I am writing all this because yesterday I was chatting with my friend and he very surprisingly asked me, from where I get all these good talks and philosophies. Don’t I ever feel sad?? He further said that he don’t know whether whatever I say is correct or not but still for a minute these talks make him feel good. And the reason behind it I feel is the positivity. When we speak positively, it brings positive result with it. The law of attraction and repulsion works very well in our lives. Whatever u give, u gets back.

I was a damn moody earlier(thodi bahut abhi b hun) , my mood used to swing like roller coaster, sometimes happy, sometimes sad  but now something is changed in me though now also,  I do feel sad and  frustrated  sometimes when things don’t go my way, or when I have an altercation with my muma (which happens often. lol)  or with anyone(very seldom) but as soon I get angry and react, within seconds I don’t know  how but all my anger get dissolved  and I  feel better and happy again or  I start cuddling with the one I had the brawl. this instant change(my mom found it mysterious)  in my mood  often  lead to a dialogue which she often say to me "pta ni kaunsa bhoot  sawar hota hai tujme thode daer k liye.,,ek minute mai fool aur ek minute mai kaanta”  well she is mother and hence, she forgets everything but many cannot (including me) . We are humans and we can’t bear a single criticism, arguments from anyone (same with me) , most of the relations break just because of our overreaction on certain things.

 I have found that when   a person says or does something and we find ourselves upset, offended or angry, do your best to change the negative reaction right away. Simply being aware that you have reacted negatively takes the power out of the negative feelings immediately and can even stop them. but if we feel as though the negative feelings have a grip on us, it’s best to walk away and spend a couple of minutes looking for the things we love, one after other until we feel much better, I do the same like listening to my favorite music ,imagining the things I  love or doing something I love. We can also think about the things we love in the person who upsets us, this might be challenging but if we can do it, it is the fastest way to feel better. It’s also the fastest way to become the master of your feelings! And believe me this works.

 

A man who is master of himself can end a sorrow as he can invent a pleasure. We should not be at the mercy of our emotions. We should use them, to enjoy them and to dominate them. Remember friends We can change any negative situation in our life, but we can’t change it with bad feelings. We have to react differently to the situation because if we keep reacting negatively, our bad feelings will magnify and multiply the negativity. Whereas when we give good feelings, the positivity magnifies and multiplies.

With all the good feelings I wish each one of u find ur way and  whenever anyone offends u I am sure u will try to raise ur soul so high that the offense cannot reach it..and attract as much positivity in your life as u can.

 

Be loving and love will follow u everywhere.

 

Regards

Kiran.

 

people who made difference

“At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each one of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us”  :-ALBERT SCHWEITZER

Whenever I read these lines by Albert schwintzer, the Noble peace prize winner and a wonderful philosopher I always think that everyone of us has received help, support or guidance from other people at particular times in our life when we needed it most. Sometimes another person alters the course of our life through their encouragement, guidance or just being there at the right time. And then life goes on, and we tend to forget those times when one person touched us or changed our life. Sometimes we don’t even realize the impact a person had until well into the future, when we look back in our life and realize that a particular person was pivotal in magically changing the direction of our life for better.

The person may have been a teacher or coach, an uncle or aunt, sibling, grandparent, or any family member or friend. They may have been the person who introduced us to our current partner or to a particular interest that became one of our greatest passions. May be they are someone we didn’t even know and they appeared in our life very briefly, performing a random act of kindness that touched us to the core.

My mother gave me my love for spirituality, she is the one who introduced me to the world of purity, she disciplined me with a steel hand to say thank you, to help others, to feel the emotions of others. I am always grateful to her for the huge influence she has on the course of my life.

Whereas my father introduced me to the world of responsibilities, he always insisted me to do my work on my own,  from the early childhood he gave me many opportunities to find myself, to understand what life is all about and how to live well in the life,,,,

So there are numerous people apart from parents and sibling who teaches us a lot, I would like to thank each and every person who have been in my life as I have learned something from each of them……i am full of gratitude to all my friends, relatives for all their sweet and bitter words coz their admiration or criticism   have impacted on my life for better.

I just learned it today that we should “Always spare some time to thanks all such people once in day that once lighted the flame within us” 

i did it,,,now its your turn........:-))

Love

Kiran

dreams and goals

As life develops, many of us have an urge to focus on the deeper issues—our dreams and goals, and our emotional and spiritual development. When this happens, life gradually becomes more about meaning and satisfaction and less about obligations and accomplishments. As we get mature, we focus on living the life we always wanted to live, tempered by the wisdom we have gained through our experiences.

I have learned many things about myself throughout this life. I now know how you deal with work, with financial decisions, with family, friends and with my relationships. But how much attention we have paid to our relationship with our own self? To make our dreams come true, we must turn within to discover what will make us happy.

To me, this deeper look at life is like moving from black and white to color, everything is brighter, more beautiful, and even a little strange.
This new palette of more colors, deeper responses to life, and more intimate knowledge of myself gives me an opportunity to re-create myself, to be and do all the things I’ve always dreamed of. If you allow yourself to dream, to aspire, you will begin to plan, and once you have a plan, you can begin taking steps to make it real.

“Path of life is always a path of mystery. Learning something means coming into contact with a world of which we know nothing in order to learn, we must be humble”. I have always believed that whatever happens, happens for your good and for me it always went the same,,,never in my life I think I doubted on my dreams or on my capabilities of achieving it, I know each one of us have this power to be the creator of our own destiny , always feel the presence and blessings of that almighty.

Everything in the universe has life, if u can feel it then u must always try to stay in contact with that life, it. During my walks, I have always observed it that nature understands our language, waterfalls, mountains and forest are all places where the spirits of earth tend to play and laugh and speak to us. There is so much love and happiness all around us……just to feel it and believe in it makes all our dreams a reality….this profound nature always gives hope for something better.

 I understand now that this faith in nature must come from our hearts... the sincerity... the core to everything we do... not just by saying it. We have to really feel it. I don’t feel sad when I easily got tears in my eyes... the tears always come whenever I feel touched by the beauty surrounding me or the kindness or wonderful things that happened to me. Teeny weeny small things that I do for my family or friends are great blessings for me and my each day is like a new fulfilling day for me...

Just feel the good and have the good. All your dreams will surely come true,it’s on the way and very soon u will get the good news….

Always recite this beautiful poem that i have read in one the paul cohelo's book ,

“I see skies of blue……clouds of white,

Bright blessed days..dark scared nights

And I think to myself-

What a wonderful world”

"lord, give us the humility to ask for what we need, because no desire is vain and no request is futile"

Love

Kiran

my finding on life

“Life” is a wonderful four letter word which connect us from our own selves, there are so many philosophies attached with this life, different people have different opinions.

Isn’t it amazing that even though our whole life revolves around this life only still we don’t even know what exactly this whole life is all about?..

I am sure each one of u has/have ur own definitions on life but what I have understood in all these years is, it is a beautiful learning experience, the more u live it, The more u get to know about it. The main purpose of this life is to enjoy the maximum and reveals the mysteries of life, the lessons that I have learned over the past years were meant to be shared with others, I have read about the law of attraction, the power and the magic and I am indeed very happy to say that all the philosophies written on these books are actually true, I have experienced them. I have seen it in my own life………the more u feel satisfied and content ,the more u attract it, when u feel thankful to god for having so much, it actually adds up your happiness, whereas when u feel low or disappointed over money or something, u end up attracting the same negativity which result in more disappointments.

I have understood that there is always a reason for everything, perhaps at the same moment that an event occurs we have neither the insight nor the foresight to comprehend the reason, but with time and patience, it will come to light. Many times I have gone through such situations where initially I was disappointed over my failures but with time everything became clear. I now understand that there is always something good behind everything. So no matter how worse may be the  situation is, it’s always for our good, bcoz u learn a lot with all these situations which ultimately results in making u a better, more stronger person, and sooner or later u get paid for that,,,

I am a strong believer of karmas , and I know the one who believe in the power of his karmas always end up  having satisfactory life, coz he know, his gud karma’s will bring him good fortune.

For me the important part of this life is to know the art of living…..and in my opinion the art of living is to Be happy in every situation, take everything as a learning experience, whether gud or bad,, hope for the better and always believe in the almighty coz he never do wrong to gud souls, believe in ur karmas.do good u will always have gud. Be happy and let other also remain happy. Greet ever one with love and u will attract love…and always thank god for giving so much to us”