As I was going through the newspapers today , many articles
written in appreciation of women around the world caught my attention.. I
really admire the way women have made their name in all spheres of life but what really struck my mind was a
beautiful article written by Chetan Bhagat in yesterday’s “Dainik Bhaskar”. He
very politely urged women to stop blaming and ridiculing their own gender. And
I strongly go with this statement. Not every problem of women starts with
men.... It's not always men who suppress
women but sometimes its women too , yes in
fact it would be no wrong if I say that more than men we women suppress our
gender cruelly…
It's always a female who runs a brothel, in most of the cases
we have seen or heard that most of the time it's always a woman who compel
their daughter in law for dowry or abortion… see when we say that behind every
successful man there is always a woman, then there is equally a saying which
says behind every wrong done by a man there is also a woman somewhere. Please don't
take any of my remarks as anti women. I am a myself s a woman and I am proud of
my being but what I want to say is somewhere down the line we women ourselves
are the enemy of our own gender… how often we women compliment each other?? Don’t we ourself make sleazy remarks for a woman
wearing a short dress ?? Do we not
become so judgmental that if someone is
talking to a male friend, I guess we are the one who start gossiping about her
first than men…
Just imagine if we ourself don't respect the freedom of our
gender how we can expect it from the other???
We women should understand that our power lies in our unity..
I can guarantee that the day when all women will respect and value the other
women , we won’t need anyone to protect us. Lets ourselves be so strong that no
one even dare to touch us or defame us.. There
is a beautiful saying that , it's only a woman who
can love you in many
ways. She is kind and gentle. Let's be kind and gentle not only to our sons , or
daughters or husband’s , let be equally kind and gentle to our own gender.
Instead of competing , lets feel proud of other’s success.
And yes one more thing that I recently noticed in a movie
named “MAAI” starter ASHA BHONsle, while
watching that movie , I experienced or say observed a totally different side of
a woman which actually compelled me to ponder… though not anywhere in the movie
it portrayed , in fact movie is all about a girl who take care of mother when
his brother left her mother alone,,,, but what really pinched me is the role of
daughter- in law in all this.. See, women are women, being kind and gentle Is
in our inner nature then how can a woman have a different feeling for her own
mother and her mother-in law? How can our feelings change so instantly?.. And
vice versa…. We care for our own daughter but not for the one who has come to
our home while leaving her own family?? Why so biased?? As a woman this particular
incident shocked me and of course it let me have an introspection of myself.
Well a lot has been
said by me , and believe me in no way I
am disrespecting anyone its just that I think we women should introspect
ourselves before blaming anyone for disrespecting us and should be united when it comes to demand justice.
I am Happy that
Nirbhaya is getting a Stree Shakti award posthumously today,, very
well deserved award but still I would be more happy if our govt rehabilitate
all those women; who are raped and in
fact alive , and are bound to live an unhappy
life…
Neway I wish
all you beautiful women’s a very Happy women's
day and of course I want
to thank all those men too who love women’s in their life. I am so sure your
life is the loveliest one..
And yup happy Womens’
day for me too, I am inspired to be inspired, and I know my worth as a woman ❤
With love
Kiran
