"proud to be a women"

Well finally my laptop is working again n I am happy that now I can again start writing on it,,,:-D,In the past several months I have read so many books ,,experienced so many things that I wanted to share with u all ,,Books have always played a special part in my life..they have always taught me various things..i have been traveling and meeting so many people through these books ..recently I read “chicken soup for women soul” n this book has touched my heart in a very special way……my mother has always taught me that we women are very special ,we have patience,simplicity,innocence n most important of all we have an indomitable spirit,,but this book has enabled me to read so many stories where I read about all the wonderful women who have lived all their lives with all these qualities...

sometimes I really get surprised when I listen to same people saying.....it’s a curse to be a women,,women have to bear a lot,they have to sacrifice n bla bla….whereas I see this womanhood a blessing from god,,,,,how fortunatete we are to be a women,,,,we are the makers,the creators,,,we live so many relations in one life,,,we are daughters,sisters,lovers,mothers ,,each relation that we form is deeply connected to us,,,we are emotional ,,we feel each n every thing with that emotional bond…we are the one who can reshape anything ,,we make the home,,we fill the family….i remember once my mother said to me that “its always in the hand of a girl to break or to make a home” n now I feel how true these lines were,,,,

We get the opportunity to live in two homes…we get two mothers,two fathers,so many brothers n sisters all throughout our life,,just imagine what a wonderful experience it is to get birth somewhere else n to die at another,to live with your mother n father for some years n then suddenly go to another home,entirely different, and to live rest of the life with those new relations,,,,its one of the best things that happens with girls.. The most thrilling experience in this whole life is to give birth to an another soul,,a new body,,for me it’s a miracle ,,,,,it’s a special gift that god has only given to women, no man can ever experience that feeling of carrying a new life with ur body for long nine months,,,how fortunate we women are to have all such enriching experience…yet we never understand our true self….the most unfortunate part of many women life is to not understand what exactly her womanhood means..its always in our hands what we want to consider ourselves,,,,,,,,a special one or a cursed one…..

Just love yourseld first and everything else falls into line .you really have to love yourself to get anything donee in this world..i know all women go through periods in their lives when numerous demands are placed on them-family,work,spouse ,children etc but,,it is important indeed necessary ti step back and reevaluate one’s priorities to reflect on one’s mission in life,,,,,for it is only in nurturing one’s soul that one can nurture,take care of another,,,,,,,,

For all the special women ,,,,,,,who are proud to be a part of this womanhood,,,there is only one line to us all…”we are the queens,we have to owm our power and our own glory” I am ending this blog with the lyrics of wonderful grammy award winning song by billy joel…..

“ don’t go changing, To try n please me,,,,, I love u just the way u are.”

Regards

Kiran bhardwaj