those birthdays at school

Wow it’s my birthday today n finally I have successfully completed 23 years,,,,,huh  long long years, it seems budhapa nazdik hai.:-; .lol.

Well No matter how much we grow or how much old we are , childhood days are worth remembering. That craze of being a birthday girl, that imagination to see urself standing in front of the class with a packet full f toffees in hands, and all clapping and singing the famous b’day song for u ,,,,,,wow, superstar feeling.:-D

 

Now we all have cell phone so that exicetment of "who will  remember my birthday"  is slightly diminished. Facebook gives notification on many days before, we  have alarm clocks which keeps us informed on the particular day that who’s bday it is today……..but in those days, b’day was a day of testing the best friend, jinhone dekhte hi wosh kiy vo friends aur jinhe yad ni vo ainwee noraml classmates…….i remember in childhood I had friend named shilpa, once she forgets my birthday nd god knows how much she pleaded for sorry but I was like a dictator, I said  “ atti batti, sau saal ki ktti” ,,,,,,lol… i used to took seconds to break the relation and then within seconds kaati ko kaat dete the,,,,,,"katti juthi",.birthday used to be a day of  full on masti,  in short on the top wali  feeling ko pure din carry krna,,,,To  give two tofees to every student but to special ones, I mean close friends , unko do ki jagah 4 tofees dena.ha ha……here's this beautiful vodafone add that reminds me that time.......have a look....:-D

 

how I am missing all those days,,,,, how much innocence we used to have that time…treat naam ka koi shabad bhi hota hai ye to pta b ni tha,,,,ha ha . n now even a 2 year old knows whats called treat and gift,,,,,mere liye to bday k din toffee ka pkt mil jaye school maibaantne ko vahi bday hota tha…….. ha ha , time has changed so as we but still those special days can never be forgotten…..

Well thanks to my br0ther “Deepak bhardwaj” for reminding me all such days.....lol ,can’t express how much happy I am just to remind all those school days  that i am constantly smilng  writng this post,,,,,,

 

 

Will miss forever those beautiful days. Thanks to god and parents who gave us this opportunity to enjoy that school life. Must admit this , school friends are the  best friends one can have,,,,,though later in college ,in office we came in contact with so many people. Get close to certain people…but yet those school buddies are the best of all ……:-D

To all my  school friends who are on facebook  or not,  my school kendriya vidya ,kasauli n ofcourse saraswati niketan……..i rember you all…..

For all those who has similar feelings can write a reply …….

N Yup for all my friends( school tym, college tym, ofc wale, travelling lk time milne wale, camp wale ya SSB wale) BIG big thanks to all of u for wishing me on my birthday and to make this day a special one.

 

Love

Kiran.

our reaction matters a lot

Life is presenting every person and circumstance to us so that we can choose what we love and what we don’t love. When we react to anything, we are reacting with our feelings and as we do we are choosing it! Our reaction, whether good or bad, sticks it with us. I am writing all this because yesterday I was chatting with my friend and he very surprisingly asked me, from where I get all these good talks and philosophies. Don’t I ever feel sad?? He further said that he don’t know whether whatever I say is correct or not but still for a minute these talks make him feel good. And the reason behind it I feel is the positivity. When we speak positively, it brings positive result with it. The law of attraction and repulsion works very well in our lives. Whatever u give, u gets back.

I was a damn moody earlier(thodi bahut abhi b hun) , my mood used to swing like roller coaster, sometimes happy, sometimes sad  but now something is changed in me though now also,  I do feel sad and  frustrated  sometimes when things don’t go my way, or when I have an altercation with my muma (which happens often. lol)  or with anyone(very seldom) but as soon I get angry and react, within seconds I don’t know  how but all my anger get dissolved  and I  feel better and happy again or  I start cuddling with the one I had the brawl. this instant change(my mom found it mysterious)  in my mood  often  lead to a dialogue which she often say to me "pta ni kaunsa bhoot  sawar hota hai tujme thode daer k liye.,,ek minute mai fool aur ek minute mai kaanta”  well she is mother and hence, she forgets everything but many cannot (including me) . We are humans and we can’t bear a single criticism, arguments from anyone (same with me) , most of the relations break just because of our overreaction on certain things.

 I have found that when   a person says or does something and we find ourselves upset, offended or angry, do your best to change the negative reaction right away. Simply being aware that you have reacted negatively takes the power out of the negative feelings immediately and can even stop them. but if we feel as though the negative feelings have a grip on us, it’s best to walk away and spend a couple of minutes looking for the things we love, one after other until we feel much better, I do the same like listening to my favorite music ,imagining the things I  love or doing something I love. We can also think about the things we love in the person who upsets us, this might be challenging but if we can do it, it is the fastest way to feel better. It’s also the fastest way to become the master of your feelings! And believe me this works.

 

A man who is master of himself can end a sorrow as he can invent a pleasure. We should not be at the mercy of our emotions. We should use them, to enjoy them and to dominate them. Remember friends We can change any negative situation in our life, but we can’t change it with bad feelings. We have to react differently to the situation because if we keep reacting negatively, our bad feelings will magnify and multiply the negativity. Whereas when we give good feelings, the positivity magnifies and multiplies.

With all the good feelings I wish each one of u find ur way and  whenever anyone offends u I am sure u will try to raise ur soul so high that the offense cannot reach it..and attract as much positivity in your life as u can.

 

Be loving and love will follow u everywhere.

 

Regards

Kiran.