Monday, August 27, 2012

my finding on life


“Life” is a wonderful four letter word which connect us from our own selves, there are so many philosophies attached with this life, different people have different opinions.
Isn’t it amazing that even though our whole life revolves around this life only still we don’t even know what exactly this whole life is all about?..
I am sure each one of u has/have ur own definitions on life but what I have understood in all these years is, it is a beautiful learning experience, the more u live it, The more u get to know about it. The main purpose of this life is to enjoy the maximum and reveals the mysteries of life, the lessons that I have learned over the past years were meant to be shared with others, I have read about the law of attraction, the power and the magic and I am indeed very happy to say that all the philosophies written on these books are actually true, I have experienced them. I have seen it in my own life………the more u feel satisfied and content ,the more u attract it, when u feel thankful to god for having so much, it actually adds up your happiness, whereas when u feel low or disappointed over money or something, u end up attracting the same negativity which result in more disappointments.
I have understood that there is always a reason for everything, perhaps at the same moment that an event occurs we have neither the insight nor the foresight to comprehend the reason, but with time and patience, it will come to light. Many times I have gone through such situations where initially I was disappointed over my failures but with time everything became clear. I now understand that there is always something good behind everything. So no matter how worse may be the  situation is, it’s always for our good, bcoz u learn a lot with all these situations which ultimately results in making u a better, more stronger person, and sooner or later u get paid for that,,,
I am a strong believer of karmas , and I know the one who believe in the power of his karmas always end up  having satisfactory life, coz he know, his gud karma’s will bring him good fortune.
For me the important part of this life is to know the art of living…..and in my opinion the art of living is to Be happy in every situation, take everything as a learning experience, whether gud or bad,, hope for the better and always believe in the almighty coz he never do wrong to gud souls, believe in ur karmas.do good u will always have gud. Be happy and let other also remain happy. Greet ever one with love and u will attract love…and always thank god for giving so much to us”

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

the simple touchness


If we perceive with an open mind, every human being has some good quality which we can emulate with benefit to ourselves.

Over the past 3 years, I have had the privilege of meeting or getting to know a number of distinguished men and women through books. In each, I have found a touch of greatness and this led me to search for the secret of their distinction in the context of their lives and times. I have learnt something from each one of those who have wrote those books or whose stories got published in it. some quality in their lives or a sentence or two which I often quote from them has helped me to enrich and heighten my own life ,they have helped me at crucial moments.

Since morning I am reading a book,”a touch of greatness” by R.M LALA..i have finished some 18 stories by now but felt an urge to write down what I feel.in all these years, by reading all such books and experiencing ltl –ltl things in my life I have found that ,the most beautiful thing in this whole world is to touch someone’s heart” our simple hello can make someone’s day. our simple “how r u” can prove to be a healer for someone alone. No matter what ur designation is or d amount of bank balance u have, at one point of tym we all need someone who can boost us, or simply listens to us.

I read about AZIM premzi, Narayan murthy n many more, and its wonderful to know that each one of them has described their mother as the one who touched their life by listening to them or by supporting them. They were simple ladies who looked after their homes and kids, not even much educated but their biggest contribution is their touchiness. Have u ever thought why people always talk much about their mothers than fathers,,,it just because in life it doesn’t matter who gives u materialistic possessions. What matters most is the person who consoles u during your tough times, or who listens to you, who touch ur heat when u feel wounded…

I often think Will this generation of kids have the same attachment with their mothers as earlier it used to be…do mothers have enough time to think about his son or husband? In this race of achieving the status symbol, or having a good standard of living, we have let our relationships suffer. In order to give our family a better life, we are actually ruining our today’s simple pleasures. Have u ever imagined in a run of having a good future and a good standard of living, we have forgot that for whom we want to acquire all this? For the one with whom we rarely find tym to talk, cuddle and play? Or with the one who we call our soul mate but its been around a month that we didn’t even asked him how he/she is? Do we have so much tym today to just sit n talk to someone who is alone? Then how can we touch someone’s heart?

I read these beautiful lines in rashmi bandsal’s book
“The bank balance we have will remain here on earth when we depart, only our karmas will carry forward” So no matter what your problem in life is. Spare a moment for someone else,

, I say, forget about someone else, just spare a tym for ur own self, for ur family.if we have a loving companion n family, money will come happily…but if we don’t have beautiful relations then no amount of money and luxury will give us happiness.

I always thank god for all that he has given to me, problems have always resulted in making me a stronger person,, each failure has made me more humble n each happiness has aroused that feeling of gratitude to him for all the bliss. Life simple pleasures are worth it…..live it

So no matter where u r and what u do, make sure during our routine work, we find time to greet and listen to our loved one’s n make everyone happy with our smiling face….:-D 

keep smiling always

with love

kiran

Thursday, June 7, 2012

"proud to be a women"


Well finally my laptop is working again n I am happy that now I can again start writing on it,,,:-D,In the past several months I have read so many books ,,experienced so many things that I wanted to share with u all ,,Books have always played a special part in my life..they have always taught me various things..i have been traveling and meeting so many people through these books ..recently I read “chicken soup for women soul” n this book has touched my heart in a very special way……my mother has always taught me that we women are very special ,we have patience,simplicity,innocence n most important of all we have an indomitable spirit,,but this book has enabled me to read so many stories where I read about all the wonderful women who have lived all their lives with all these qualities...
sometimes I really get surprised when I listen to same people saying.....it’s a curse to be a women,,women have to bear a lot,they have to sacrifice n bla bla….whereas I see this womanhood a blessing from god,,,,,how fortunatete we are to be a women,,,,we are the makers,the creators,,,we live so many relations in one life,,,we are daughters,sisters,lovers,mothers ,,each relation that we form is deeply connected to us,,,we are emotional ,,we feel each n every thing with that emotional bond…we are the one who can reshape anything ,,we make the home,,we fill the family….i remember once my mother said to me that “its always in the hand of a girl to break or to make a home” n now I feel how true these lines were,,,,
We get the opportunity to live in two homes…we get two mothers,two fathers,so many brothers n sisters all throughout our life,,just imagine what a wonderful experience it is to get birth somewhere else n to die at another,to live with your mother n father for some years n then suddenly go to another home,entirely different, and to live rest of the life with those new relations,,,,its one of the best things that happens with girls.. The most thrilling experience in this whole life is to give birth to an another soul,,a new body,,for me it’s a miracle ,,,,,it’s a special gift that god has only given to women, no man can ever experience that feeling of carrying a new life with ur body for long nine months,,,how fortunate we women are to have all such enriching experience…yet we never understand our true self….the most unfortunate part of many women life is to not understand what exactly her womanhood means..its always in our hands what we want to consider ourselves,,,,,,,,a special one or a cursed one…..
Just love yourseld first and everything else falls into line .you really have to love yourself to get anything donee in this world..i know all women go through periods in their lives when numerous demands are placed on them-family,work,spouse ,children etc but,,it is important indeed necessary ti step back and reevaluate one’s priorities to reflect on one’s mission in life,,,,,for it is only in nurturing one’s soul that one can nurture,take care of another,,,,,,,,
For all the special women ,,,,,,,who are proud to be a part of this womanhood,,,there is only one line to us all…”we are the queens,we have to owm our power and our own glory” I am ending this blog with the lyrics of wonderful grammy award winning song by billy joel…..
“ don’t go changing, To try n please me,,,,, I love u just the way u are.”
Regards
Kiran bhardwaj

Sunday, January 8, 2012

my unforgettable journey

I have returned from srilanka a week ago but today only i have got some time to write something about my trip...writing all such experience is always very fascinating for me n quite special too as it gives a chance to recall all those beautiful moments which I have lived there with my special friends,,,,,,,,,,,
I have a desire to travel ,sometimes I feel i could travel forever through my country and i don’t think i will ever tire of ...our’s is a land of many people ,many races, ..for all Indians to be alike would be as dull as for all sexes to be the same or for all humans to be normal and believe me this diversity in people n countries is something that always excites me to travel more and more.......i t gibes me immense happiness when i meet new people,, see their culture,their art ,their traditions .i just love to get involved with them in their activities and travelling gives it all to me.....
National youth project gave me an opportunity to visit srilanka for a south Asia youth peace camp..I started my journey enthusiastically on 15th dec with many hopes and aspirations. In the train i dreamt of how my next 15 days would be like...travelling in railways is always very special for me as one gets chance to cross many states, to meet many people from across the country in a single journey.......met gunjan ,a native of bihar,a young future airmen of our country who was going to Bangalore to join the air force academy Also, met two very nice uncles, Mohd zafar n mohd. Kamar.who was with me throughout my journey till Chennai...i enjoy interacting with people as it gives me a chance to understand these people better ,to know their opinions ,to have a glimpse of their culture etc as they all belong to different walks of life....no matter how different some opinions are ,no matter how different their culture n living are from me but there is one thing common in all and that’s humanity. people say humanity is lost now a days but believe me i have found many people in dis journey, young or old who are more humane than anything,,,,,,,they are above religion, caste n creed. Gud to see that in reality, people in India are all above this religion n region debate which we usually watch in tv....
Reached Chennai on 17th dec. . felt blessed, when i got an opportunity to visit Tirupati Balaji temple (India’s well renowned temple),,,,,its an inexpressible feeling dat comes when u visit such places n specially when u see the idol, a numbness passes on the body.........
i am not at all religious,,i don’t believe in a particular religion.....as i believe religion somewhere divides us,.i wish people become spiritual instead of religious,,,neway that my personal comment..........being a spiritual person,,i felt that immense spirituality in tirupati,,,,,,its amazing to see thousands of people standing in queue for hours just to have a look of d lord govinda,,,,,,that faith always drives me on n that is what i love about us i.e Indians,,,,,(hamare pas chahe kuch bhi na ho lekin bhagwan pe vishwas jarur hota hai) ...however i never understood the concept of god in all religions....but whatever it is., this faith has a spirit that connects all of us in the name of god.........
i have always believed in powers.yes there are powers in the form of positive vibrations.they are all around us ,they guide us, they take care of us,,n tirupati is full of those miraculous vibrations............its such an amazing experience to be at tirupati,,,,,,,,i wish i could take my parents there soon......
On 18th dec i met many nyp people who had come form, many parts of India at world university centre, Chennai.,..however they were all unknown to me as all were from different states of India n i was meeting with them for the first time but still within minutes we all become friends n by the time of morning our diversified identity became one n we Indians headed to srilanka as a team...........

Srilanka is a beautiful country with beautiful people .The natural beauty of Sri Lanka has led to the title The Pearl of the Indian Ocean.] The island is laden with lush tropical forests, white beaches and diverse landscapes with rich biodiversity. The country lays claim to a long and colourful history of over three thousand years, having one of the longest documented histories in the world..............
I will rember My 10 days stay in srilanka throughout my life ....srilanka is the country where i met many youngsters from Bangladesh,Nepal,Maldives and America....(however didn’t got enough time to interact with all of them )but still its a wonderful experience to listen to them,to know about their countries n their culture....i have observed a common thing in everyone there,,,,,there is passion in everyone to be united, no one wants to be excluded....each representative of these 4 nations had an urge to be united n work collaborate for the betterment of south Asia n d world........
Words always fell short when one writes about his/her experience, there are many things untold ,many emotional moments unexpressed but still i have to conclude as it has already became very lengthy,,,,, i am indeed very thankful to Don Bosco college and all my srilankan friends for their immense support n love......missing u all......
I am full of gratitude to Mr. S.N SUBBA RAO for giving me this opportunity to see srilanka n meet such enthusiastic youngsters from the south Asia.,
Love n thanks to all my Indian campers for all their support n love during my stay (had an severe allergy problem there) .....
Above all thanks to everyone for making this camp a successful one......
Will write about my exploration in srilanka soon..........

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Sunday, November 27, 2011

beautiful life is to be live beautifully

Curiousity to learn new things always drives me on,,,,,since a month my mother is going to some meditation classes and as every mother do ,she was insisting me join the classes as well but i rejected as i believe satisfaction is the only way to be happy,we don’t need to go here n there but still yesterday i made my mind n went there to just know what they actually practice n how they relieved people from stress..i was moved by the people who were sharing their stories to them..........there are people who have lots of money,fame,power but still they are unhappy,,,,,,they are not satisfied with what they have,,,,they want something that c an give peace to them, they have life’s all luxuries but there is no love n respect in their lives..in a race of becoming rich, n well we have lost our inner self......their rich life with no love really swayed me to ponder over my own life, how much i have learned about my life? N here’s what i found about my life.........
Life is a beautiful gift that god has given to us , there is happiness,sorrows,surprises,adventure,thrills,possessiveness,love n so on..in this race of living life hardly we get time to think on what we are n we are here to do? From the childhood we are told that what would be our life like, ,,,,,,,,,i think we just know about these 4 things in life ,school,college,job,marriage n then death. rarely we get time to think what we are n whats our wishes to become. in this race of life many time we undergo a time when we become very emotional n that is the only time in this high speed life that we get time to think for our own self actually our inner self. emotions are something that we can’t express in words,its a natural feeling that comes to us without prior notification....many times we get full of emotions,we don’t understand why it happens , when everybody around loves us ,cares for us,supports us but still we feel lonely ,we feel out of the world,,,,,,,we doesn’t like to do anything,,just one feeling comes to us n that;s why all this happening to me? What’s my mistake? N believe me that is only time when we connect to that supreme soul or to what we people commonly say god ........(well i really don’t have that much idea of who is god......coz i never understood the social concept of people towards god..on the one side they say GOD IS ONE but on the other they differentiate people by their religion .if god id pone then how can pur god be different.) I just knw there is an invisible force,a power, vibrations who loves us,who listens to us ,cares for us and for me that force is my faith n faith is my god.....
Cry as much as u want ,scold him as a u want ,complain to him n suddenly you will feel that you are OK now,that inner force tells you that “its all for good , don’t worry all will be alright,i m with you” and at that every moment we get power to move on in life with more spirit and courage. That internal force is the only god which always uplift me during my low times.disappointments are always for a short minute in my life ,my faith always uplifts me and gives me the positive energy to look on every thing positively.. i am very happy with all that i have in my life,,,,,,,i have everything that a person needs in his life, love,respect, trust ,faith,,,,,,,n my god who is always there with me..in order to have a satisfied life we just need one thing n dats our honesty in everything we do.. so spare some time to think for your own self.......your inner self...........

I have always believed in one thing good life is the only religion...all god’s creatures are his family and he is the most beloved of god who tries to do do good to god’s creatures........

Saturday, August 27, 2011

THIS IS DEMOCRACY.........

Patriotism has found its expression in various forms over the years. since time immemorial there have been individuals whose love for their motherland has driven tem to such extremes that they have put nation before self and have readily sacrificed their own lives in order to bring justice to the masses…..and really believe me I am happy that Anna’s movement for janlokpal bill has shown all of us how satyagrah would be in Gandhi an times,,,,,,,,,,,

What a victory? Anna called it a half victory but it’s a “karara” reply for all those including me who were regularly criticizing the govt n our democracy . I was the one who called democracy as demoncracy, Anna’s victory is a cross mark on our statements....this is the power of democracy……….when public speaks ,no one dares to speak against them…..what a victory of the people ,by the people n for the people…….being very sceptical about the govt ,,,,,,I am very happy n want to congratulate all the MP’S in the parliament who stood united for the bill n showed the power they all have n which they used effectively today……..

Fasting has also been one of the most effective mediums through which people have expressed their zeal for self sacrifice for their country, and we have just seen the impact of this fasting in democracy with the Janlokpal’s victory of Anna Hazare,…..I was reading an article in a magazine today n found that Indian history abounds wit examples of such determined individuals who have gone on fast unto death for causes they believed in and achieved extraordinary feats by the courage of their convictions…

Mahatma Gandhi undertook several fasts as a part of the independence movement, even revolutionaries like Shaheed BHAGAT SINGH resorted to fasting to protest against the garve injustice done to Indian prisoners in Lahore jail.,,,SUNDERLAL BAHUGUNA’s protest against the TEHRI dam and his CHIPKO movement for the environment is unforgettable…..

Not many of us are aware of Ms. IROM SHARMILLA CHANU’s prolonged 11-year fasr(still onfast) to protest against the ramed forces special power act (AFSPA) of 1968 which resulted in the malom massacre in imphal. her stand too compelled the Manipur government to remove the act from several constituencies of the impala valley,,,,,,

And the latest Mr. Anna Hazare’s move over the lokpal bill is also quite commendable. This simple bespectacled old man has absolutely no political ambition, and the sincerity of his cause is beyond question.

The corruption rampant in our society requires such men and women who, with their strong will and determination .rise against the immoral practices and unite to wage a constant battle on the social and political evils,…and really it’s a historic movement what India see today. I am happy that we are the witness of a such a mass movement……

One thing I must admit n admire too that for the forst time I saw such an integration, where people irrespective of their caste ,religion , tribes, region, parties, people come all above, everyone from hawker to bureaucrats from a street player to top bollywood stars, all were united India was really integrated for this movement n that’s on what I have proud ,I am proud of this integrity. this approach of Indianess ,,,,,where nothing comes in mind ,,,,,,,where just one thing comes n that’s its for us ,it’s for our nation……

I salute Anna Hazare for giving us the hope n making this a reality ,,,,he is man who integrated all of us, he is the person whose movement against corruption compelled all political parties to be united to pass the bill…….his movement got such a massive support that once again ,India showed the world its power of democracy……….

It’s really a day of hope, what a wonderful night, a proud night where we all become witness of such a historic movement……

THIS IS OUR INDIA N I AM PROUD OF IT.

Monday, August 15, 2011

are we really mahaan?

Yesterday I was listening to PM speech n heard all well about our nation. India is known for its unity in diversity, it’s culture ,traditions all are so fascinating that no one even compares, it’s said that the most valuable and most artistic materials in the history of man are treasured up in India only .….

It’s always easy to make a speech and use words like integration, unity, secularism n democracy……….but its difficult to work on them,…..let’s first talk about our unity in diversity. There’s no doubt that India is a diversified nation with thousands of dialects n hundreds of tribes…….but our unity in diversity die when we talk about separate TELENGANA ,,,,,people are dying like hell just for the sake of forming a separate nation, if we are so united then why we are demanding a separate nation? Or state? why we are divided in name of caste n religion? Where our unity goes when it comes to elect a fair representative? Instead of being united for the nation’s development we get bifurcated in the name of caste, or religion or sometimes money.

Sorry to say this but far from becoming MAHAAN ,India is going to the dogs … I am angry and I can’t let these bloody fanatics get away with their dirty games…..just 24 hrs after PM unfurls flag to celebrate independence, ANNA is taken away by the police for no crime…….for how long we will shut our mouth? Is dis democracy?

Yesterday on the eve of independence day I saw the latest controversial movie “Aaraksan” n believe me it’s an outstanding movie n prakash jha deserves an award for it…..I am shocked to even think that why such a movie got banned in many states of India? What the hell these politicians have thought wile banning that?

Aaraksan tells the truth…its has shown the pros n cons of reservation n very clearly and in a unbiased way it has put on opinions of both the sides,,,, it exposed the commercial side of education which is proliferating in India day by day ……

its unfortunate that we Indians have always been more concerned about the race ,religion and caste we were born into than about being nationals. It’s time to change and hence I suggest every Indian should watch this movie because it gives us a message that humanity is all above caste. NATION is made of its citizens and hence in order to make our nation developed we need to develop our citizen first n so, it our moral duty to help others irrespective of his caste n religion.

I always say that I am against reservation which is given in the name of caste ……don’t mix reservation wit caste n religion instead it should be given on economical basis, who ever it may be, if he is deprived, he should be get extra benefits of free coaching classes , opportunities to get admitted in top colleges, but not in the name of caste, its should be all on the basis of one’s financial status…………….and this is what AARAKSAN tells…..really an awesome movie, go and watch it and tell all those medieval minded fanatic people that we won’t tolerate caste based politics now…….

I know every one us wants to make our nation proud and want to see it developing as super power soon, trust me this is all possible if we pledge that we will unequivocally embrace the idea of secularism defined in our constitution and will kick out any govt that is even remotely communal………
“NO GOVT CAN BRING HAPPINESS TO US. WE HAVE TO BRING IT OUR SELF”









Sunday, July 24, 2011

where we stand?

From the past many weeks I have been trying to write a blog but didn’t found words…..what to write? Was the first question that arises in mind,, but as I started working on my project today and read some old newspaper to complete an assignment, an image strike on my mind, a 4-year old girl was crying near a dead body ,,,,,,that body is her father’s one, who got killed in the recent terror attack at OSLO…suddenly I felt numbed .Pictures of recent attacks on Bombay came in mind .I have recently studied a book on Rajiv Gandhi’s death…on that too I studied about the whole conspiracy behind the murder, LTTE, Suicide Bombers etc….sometimes I really don’t understand what’s truth n what’s lie? Are we living in illusions or really it’s all happening here ?how can be people so cruel to kill someone? How can they kill themselves? How can be someone so brainwashed?
what is terrorism? Why they kill people? What they get? What sin those people had committed that they got killed in such attacks?

Thousands of people all around the world die every year in these terror attacks ….the reason behind terror is always this land ,,,,,just for some thousands sq.ft area, people kill each other. every one want a separate nation .they think if they will get separated ,there will be more peace n solace ……..but don’t they see what happened with Pakistan, Bangladesh n Srilanka? Are these nations very peaceful? LTTE fought for separate Tamil state,,…TALIBAN,HUJI,ISI are some groups who always try to shake India n threaten us so that Kashmir can become an independent nation………but tell me what’s this segregation will give?

You never get some answers. but really if there is god n everything is planned by him then how can people devastate other’s life in the name of him? Who is Allah? who is ram? Why people call themselves a Hindu, Muslim, Christian etc, are we born with these tags? Doesn’t u think in all these social identifications , we have somewhere forget our own self?

Its unfortunate to see that people are being used in the name of mission ,Jehad or whtever u call this religious fanaticism……..there’s is an urgent to find our inner self…it’s really hurtful when I see my friends commenting on a particular religion or community just because they think a particular country or community is responsible for all these violent attacks. just because of some selfish, barbaric people whole community, religion got defamed,…... its my utmost request to everyone plz think above this religion ,humanity is above all…..don’t be an Indian, Pakistani or Hindu or Muslim,….Be Human first ,,,,,,,,

I am a spiritual person who believes that yes, there is a positive force which runs us and that force resides in all of us in the form of faith. Humanity is above all ,,,,,,, good life is the only religion, "happiness is the only good, the place to be happy is here ,the time to be happy is now and the way to be happy is to help other” all religions are same as all believe in one and that’s god............ One medicine does not suit all; neither does one belief suit everyone. A belief should suit the soul of the aspirant………..
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Dr. S.N SUBHA RAO is an inspiration for me, such a wonderful person he is ,,,,,,a real human ,,,,,a person who is all above than Caste, Religion ,Party, Creed……..want to share some lyrics of his song which he usually sings in youth camps………


Hindu, Muslim, Sikh, Isai
Jain ,Parsi, Bodh, Bahai
Dharm bhale ho nayare nayare
Lekin behan aur bhai saare
Sarva dharm sadbhav hamra is par hume guman
Hamara pyara vishwa mahaan

Jo todenge vo tutenge ( see Bangladesh,Pakistan,)
Lakshya hamra jai jagat
Nara hai nirman
Hamra pyara vishwa mahaan…..


Rise above these social boundaions n follow only one religion .i.e
RELIGION OF HUMANITY

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

why our govt behaving lyk a deaf n dumb ?

i just watched cnn-ibn,,,,,,,n got to know about our sailors who are held captive since mar 2010,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
It has been nearly a year that six Indian sailors on the ship MV Iceberg were taken as hostage by Somali pirates but the government has not come to their rescue.
one of the reporter managed to speak to the sailors of the ship MV Iceberg which was taken over by pirates in March 2010.

its just moved me when The Chief officer of the ship, Dhiraj Tiwari recounted the daily ordeal that he and his men go through. He says food and water are rare and there is a constant fear of death. Their only question is: When will the Indian Government help rescue them?

its quite unfortunate that our govt is behaving as deaf and dumb,,,they don't even care about those parents whose children's are there in captivity,,,,are they nobody's children?

its terrible to hear a mother saying that she feels like doing everything to get her son back..

distressed father of the sailor went to Delhi to talk to the Defence Minister, Foreign Minister, Congress spokesperson Manish Tiwari, Meira Kumar, Manjunathan and Raghavendra but didn’t receive any help,

on the other hand Defence Minister AK Antony says his ministry does not get involved in negotiations to free Indian sailors held by Somali pirates. He said that whenever pirates capture any ship then the negotiations are done through other agencies and not by the defence ministry.''

no one is taking this issue seriously,,,,,,why govt is so helpless? why they don't take nay action against the owner of the ship ? why such deaf n dumb attitude? where these families should go? its really depressing to see such attitude of our govt towards their citizens?

what an irony that It has been a year-long excruciating ordeal for the six seafarers and also their families. But if the government doesn't take prompt and effective steps very soon, these forgotten Indians in Somalia perhaps would never see their families again.

lets make this "save sailors" a moment,,,,,,,,,,,,do spread this msg as many to as u can.........these sailors need to be haerd ,they need to be saved,,,,,,,they are indian they are also somebody's children.......lets move ahead with "save indian sailors" slogans................

Friday, January 14, 2011

what's the truth?

Its 14th January today n while updating my status regarding Jessica lal case , 3 words just struck in my mind and these words are money ,power and politics,,,,,,,,,

These words looks very simple but ARE they seriously that much simple??/?,,,,,The whole human kind is somewhere running for these words………”money, power and politics”……. n really its not that simple to understand the relation between three of them,,,,

What do u think come first, Is it money, then power or then politics? Or is it like politics then power n then money? Or u think cycle goes like this,,,, power then money n then politics?
Its quite shuffling ……so,can’t say who comes fist n who second………….but the thing I know for sure is that these 3 words has so much influence in our lives that it can change anyone’s life in a second………..

Lets start with JESSICA LAL MURDER CASE,,,,,she was a model like anyone ,,,,,,,was working in a pub as a bartender ,enjoying the life to fullest and was a common women like anyone of us,,,but she was shot just coz she refused to give a drink to a spoiled brat of some MLA,,,,,
Her case was closed coz there were not enough evidences against that culprit Witnesses are bought and the evidences are tampered, all thanks to his Haryana cabinet minister father.

WONDERFUL USE OF MONEY AND POWER POLITICS

Then came THE RUCHIKA GIRHOTRA CASE which involves the molestation of 14-year-old Ruchika Girhotra in 1990 by the Inspector General of Police Shambhu Pratap Singh Rathore (S.P.S. Rathore) in Haryana, India. After she made a complaint, the victim, her family, and her friends were systematically harassed by the police leading to her eventual suicide.
Everyone knows the ex MLA JAGJEET SINGHA TIKKA also supported rathore and government also instead of filing an FIR , preferred departmental action, and, on May 28, 1991, issued a chargesheet against Rathore. However, the government's legal remembrancer, R. K. Nehru, suggested in 1992 that state government was not competent to issue the chargesheet, insisting that an FIR be registered. Then, the C M Bhajan Lal's office referred the case to the chief secretary for advice. Eventually, no action was taken.
Rathore enjoyed full support from all the Chief Ministers and used his influence and loop holes in the system to escape possible conviction, after Nine years after the molestation of Ruchika Girhotra, accused SPS Rathore himself told then chief minister of Haryana, Bansi Lal, in 1999 that three chief ministers had “saved” him while his “mala fide intentions had led to the passing of adverse order by the high court against him”
AGAIN A POWERFUL USE OF POLTICS N POWER IN THIS CASE
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NOW COMES PRIYADARSHINI MATOO a smart and beautiful young woman who was a 25 year old law student who was found raped and murdered at her house in New Delhi on January 23, 1996. Santosh Kumar Singh again a spoiled brat of a powerful police officer, ,had been stalking and harassing her for several years was the immediate suspect.
Its widely accepted by then judge of high court that “There has been particular inaction by Delhi Police”, he said, while commenting that the accused’s father may have used his official position to influence the agencies.’ Juxt because Santosh came from an influential family - his father J.P. Singh was then Inspector General of Police in the Indian Union Territory of Pondicherry - in the course of the trial he served as Joint Commissioner of Police in Delhi, where the crime had been committed
“The influence of the father has been there in the matter and there was deliberate inaction” (at the time his father was second in command of the police forces in Delhi) But Santosh came from an influential family - his father J.P. Singh was then Inspector General of Police in the Indian Union Territory of Pondicherry- in the course of the trial he served as Joint Commissioner of Police in Delhi,
THIS TIME ALSO WE SAW HOW POWER,DESIGNATION CAN FAVOUR A CULPRIT……..

I know you have already read about these cases but have u ever thought what’s common in all these cases???,,,,,,

Its all money power n our so called people’s representatives ,politicians……..in each case if look deeply u will find there are some political links ,,,,,,,

we are living in a country who poses itself as the largest democracy in the world,,,,,,we have the finest constitution in the world,,,,,,,,wonderful laws , educated people , so well media then why still we hear similar cases of murder and injustice like these cases?.......why there are still many families who are trapped in this money power n poltics,,,,?….why our judicial proceeding are so slow? Why justice is denied? Why such hypocrcy on people? Why such inequality?

Its high time to think over it,,,,,remember one day anyone of us can in places like Jessica, ruchika or priyadarshini…………it can happen to anyone……THINK OVER IT
Don’t let these 3 words to influence you,,,,,,,there’s a wonderful add of TATA TEA which states “ye khate hai kyunki hum kheelate hai”,,,,,,similar way,,,,,,,, "YE POWER KA GALAT ISTEMAL KARTE HAI KYUNKI HUM INHE AISA KRNE DETE HAI”,,,,,don’t let these spoiled brats ruin your life or anyone’s life,,,speak for justice……….speak for truth

I know late but Justice has been given in all these cases because of constant media’s hold and people’s active support on such issues …. It really shows what people and media can do, even if means challenging the system and the judiciary……..people have proved that they can set aside all such money ,power and politics game for justice….

“UNITY IS STRENGTH” is a very famous proverb….”.LET THIS UNITY BE ALWAYS UP FOR THE SAKE OF JUSTICE”

Jai Hind,,,,,Jai Bharat

Thanks and regards
Kiran bhardwaj
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Sunday, November 14, 2010

HAPPY CHILDREN'S DAY

Today is children’s day………..our whole nation is celebrating Nehru ji’s birthdays by giving flowers and gifts to childrens all over India…………various programmes were performed at various schools ,colleges and organizations….leaders very proudly said that we are rising , Govt has opened thousands of school for poor children, ,MID DAY meal scheme is working and SARVA SHIKSHA ABHIYAN is a huge success and all true ,,,,,,,,,,,actually very very true. YES govt has opened thousands of schools throughout India but what matters if some schools are just in papers? some are opened with 3-4 children,?some without teachers and some without basic amenities,,,,,,,? Yes, mid day meal is doing wonders in rural areas , poor kids are coming in the sake of food in schools,. but what matters if the food given to them is not of good quality…..what matters if they have fallen sick many times by eating that food………????

I am not here saying that nothing is done for education and upliftment of poor kids ,,,,,yes many things are already done and we are seeing results too .around 60% children in India are getting education and many others things are being done for their welfare too but what I mean to say is these are not proper, lots of money is granted by GOI for the upliftment of children in India but all in vain ,,,,we are still in 128th rank in human development index,,,,

Acc to a study More children under the age of five die in India than in any other country in the world, and from five main causes that are avoidable. the five causes as pneumonia, prematurity and low birthweight, diarrhoeal diseases, neonatal infections and birth asphyxia, and birth trauma.
"Each of the major causes ... can be prevented or treated with known, highly effective and widely practicable interventions such as improvements in prenatal care. Some 2.35 million children under the age of five died in India in 2005 , making up more than 20% of all deaths in children within that age group worldwide.
Three-fifths, or 62%, of the deaths were caused by those five reasons Most deaths in India occur at home and without medical attention. The survey found the number of girls who died between one to 59 months was 36% higher than boys, and the difference was even more stark in certain places in India.
",I know certain measures are taken to improve this condition ,Govt is too funding a huge amount for it ..Girl’s situation is also getting better and better in India. We have wonderful laws which are the best in world for human rights…..now the question comes if we are moving with such pace and so much of work is already done on child rights,,,,why still we see child working in dhabas or factories ? why still girls are trafficked?> why still 50% kids don’t go to school? What is the problem and who is responsible for it?
And answer is WE .YES we are responsible for all dis,,,,,,,rules are made but we don’t follow them……..govt is granting so much money for child protection and rights but do we ever ask where that money gone? No ,,,,,,,we just sit and wait for media to expose the corruption scandal…….then we get so agitated and show our outrage on these politicians ,,,,,but have we ever thought who elect these politicians who after coming to power involve in such scandals……. NO we never take that responsibility,,,,,,,, BUT DEAR ALL ,its high time for everyone of us to stand and speak ,,to raise our voice against all these culprits,,,,,,,,,,

WHAT CAN YOU DO?

Stand up and make some noise! Join this movement for India's children. You can make a difference. Ask your friends to be a part of getting every single girl and boy into school. Together we can make the Right to Free and Compulsory Education a reality for every child. Do it now for India's future.

Remember every voice count

Spread the word to your family and friends. You can SMS, E-mail or just talk to them and ask them to speak up and raise their voice for children. One voice makes a difference but together we can help change the fate of 8 million children. The time to begin is now.

Find a school near you and make a visit. Check if the school has:

• Separate toilets for boys and girls

• Drinking water and places for students to wash their hands with soap

• Playgrounds for playing sports and having fun

• A school library for students and their teachers

• Mid-day meals for children

You can meet the school head, teachers, community members and even the parents of children enrolled there and talk to them about the RTE Act. Let them know about the highlights and let them know how every child can benefit.
What is the Right to Education [RTE] Act 2009?

The Right of Children to Free and Compulsory Education Act or Right to Education Act (RTE), which was passed by the Indian parliament on 4 August 2009, describes the modalities of the provision of free and compulsory education for all children between 6 and 14 years in India under Article 21A of the Indian Constitution. India became one of 135 countries to make education a fundamental right of every child when the act came into force on 1 April 2010.

The Right to Education (RTE) Act grants every child, between the age bracket of 6 to 14 years, the right to free and quality education. The Act also specifies minimum norms in government schools and in private schools, a reservation of 25% of seats to children from poor families (to be reimbursed by the state as part of the public-private partnership plan).

According to the Act, no child shall be held back, expelled, or required to pass a board examination until the completion of elementary education. There is also a provision for special training of school drop-outs to bring them at par with students of the same age.

The RTE Act is the first legislation in the world that puts the responsibility of ensuring enrollment, attendance and completion, on the Government.

The Act guarantees all children with disabilities to the fundamental right to education.

RTE also calls for improving school infrastructure and training teachers so that every child in India has access to a quality education.

But this won't happen overnight. Every one of us must make some noise and speak up, India has the potential to enter the world stage as a global super power. But that won't happen unless every child goes to school. Stand up and demand that all of India's children have the right to education. It starts with you!

Here is the detail about right to education act 2009:-

What is the Right to Education [RTE] Act 2009?

The Right of Children to Free and Compulsory Education Act or Right to Education Act (RTE), which was passed by the Indian parliament on 4 August 2009, describes the modalities of the provision of free and compulsory education for all children between 6 and 14 years in India under Article 21A of the Indian Constitution. India became one of 135 countries to make education a fundamental right of every child when the act came into force on 1 April 2010.

The Right to Education (RTE) Act grants every child, between the age bracket of 6 to 14 years, the right to free and quality education. The Act also specifies minimum norms in government schools and in private schools, a reservation of 25% of seats to children from poor families (to be reimbursed by the state as part of the public-private partnership plan).

According to the Act, no child shall be held back, expelled, or required to pass a board examination until the completion of elementary education. There is also a provision for special training of school drop-outs to bring them at par with students of the same age.

The RTE Act is the first legislation in the world that puts the responsibility of ensuring enrollment, attendance and completion, on the Government.

The Act guarantees all children with disabilities to the fundamental right to education.

RTE also calls for improving school infrastructure and training teachers so that every child in India has access to a quality education.

But this won't happen overnight. Every one of us must make some noise and speak up, India has the potential to enter the world stage as a global super power. But that won't happen unless every child goes to school.

STAND UP AND DEMAND THAT ALL OF INDIA'S CHILDREN HAVE THE RIGHT TO EDUCATION. IT STARTS WITH YOU

Really a small start of our’s can make a difference in someone’s life………I still remember ,I made a project on child labour last year ,,,,,during research I found a boy named sinku who was working with a dhaba near our college,……..he insisted not to tell his story to labour inspector as otherwise he will loose his job…….u know wat its circumstances which compells child to work,,,,,,,,,we don’t have to stop child labour but we have to stop those circumstances,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

I am planning to make a visit in my nearby schools ,,,,,,anyone who is in solan district can mail me if they want to join,,,,,,,,,,,,and for others plz do spare some tym from your busy schedule and spread this RTE to as many as u can……………..

Thanks and regards

Kiran bhardwaj

HAPPY CHILDREN'S DAY

Today is children’s day………..our whole nation is celebrating Nehru ji’s birthdays by giving flowers and gifts to childrens all over India…………various programmes were performed at various schools ,colleges and organizations….leaders very proudly said that we are rising , Govt has opened thousands of school for poor children, ,MID DAY meal scheme is working and SARVA SHIKSHA ABHIYAN is a huge success and all true ,,,,,,,,,,,actually very very true. YES govt has opened thousands of schools throughout India but what matters if some schools are just in papers? some are opened with 3-4 children,?some without teachers and some without basic amenities,,,,,,,? Yes, mid day meal is doing wonders in rural areas , poor kids are coming in the sake of food in schools,. but what matters if the food given to them is not of good quality…..what matters if they have fallen sick many times by eating that food………????

I am not here saying that nothing is done for education and upliftment of poor kids ,,,,,yes many things are already done and we are seeing results too .around 60% children in India are getting education and many others things are being done for their welfare too but what I mean to say is these are not proper, lots of money is granted by GOI for the upliftment of children in India but all in vain ,,,,we are still in 128th rank in human development index,,,,

Acc to a study More children under the age of five die in India than in any other country in the world, and from five main causes that are avoidable. the five causes as pneumonia, prematurity and low birthweight, diarrhoeal diseases, neonatal infections and birth asphyxia, and birth trauma.
"Each of the major causes ... can be prevented or treated with known, highly effective and widely practicable interventions such as improvements in prenatal care. Some 2.35 million children under the age of five died in India in 2005 , making up more than 20% of all deaths in children within that age group worldwide.
Three-fifths, or 62%, of the deaths were caused by those five reasons Most deaths in India occur at home and without medical attention. The survey found the number of girls who died between one to 59 months was 36% higher than boys, and the difference was even more stark in certain places in India.
",I know certain measures are taken to improve this condition ,Govt is too funding a huge amount for it ..Girl’s situation is also getting better and better in India. We have wonderful laws which are the best in world for human rights…..now the question comes if we are moving with such pace and so much of work is already done on child rights,,,,why still we see child working in dhabas or factories ? why still girls are trafficked?> why still 50% kids don’t go to school? What is the problem and who is responsible for it?
And answer is WE .YES we are responsible for all dis,,,,,,,rules are made but we don’t follow them……..govt is granting so much money for child protection and rights but do we ever ask where that money gone? No ,,,,,,,we just sit and wait for media to expose the corruption scandal…….then we get so agitated and show our outrage on these politicians ,,,,,but have we ever thought who elect these politicians who after coming to power involve in such scandals……. NO we never take that responsibility,,,,,,,, BUT DEAR ALL ,its high time for everyone of us to stand and speak ,,to raise our voice against all these culprits,,,,,,,,,,

WHAT CAN YOU DO?

Stand up and make some noise! Join this movement for India's children. You can make a difference. Ask your friends to be a part of getting every single girl and boy into school. Together we can make the Right to Free and Compulsory Education a reality for every child. Do it now for India's future.

Remember every voice count

Spread the word to your family and friends. You can SMS, E-mail or just talk to them and ask them to speak up and raise their voice for children. One voice makes a difference but together we can help change the fate of 8 million children. The time to begin is now.

Find a school near you and make a visit. Check if the school has:

• Separate toilets for boys and girls

• Drinking water and places for students to wash their hands with soap

• Playgrounds for playing sports and having fun

• A school library for students and their teachers

• Mid-day meals for children

You can meet the school head, teachers, community members and even the parents of children enrolled there and talk to them about the RTE Act. Let them know about the highlights and let them know how every child can benefit.
What is the Right to Education [RTE] Act 2009?

The Right of Children to Free and Compulsory Education Act or Right to Education Act (RTE), which was passed by the Indian parliament on 4 August 2009, describes the modalities of the provision of free and compulsory education for all children between 6 and 14 years in India under Article 21A of the Indian Constitution. India became one of 135 countries to make education a fundamental right of every child when the act came into force on 1 April 2010.

The Right to Education (RTE) Act grants every child, between the age bracket of 6 to 14 years, the right to free and quality education. The Act also specifies minimum norms in government schools and in private schools, a reservation of 25% of seats to children from poor families (to be reimbursed by the state as part of the public-private partnership plan).

According to the Act, no child shall be held back, expelled, or required to pass a board examination until the completion of elementary education. There is also a provision for special training of school drop-outs to bring them at par with students of the same age.

The RTE Act is the first legislation in the world that puts the responsibility of ensuring enrollment, attendance and completion, on the Government.

The Act guarantees all children with disabilities to the fundamental right to education.

RTE also calls for improving school infrastructure and training teachers so that every child in India has access to a quality education.

But this won't happen overnight. Every one of us must make some noise and speak up, India has the potential to enter the world stage as a global super power. But that won't happen unless every child goes to school. Stand up and demand that all of India's children have the right to education. It starts with you!


STAND UP AND DEMAND THAT ALL OF INDIA'S CHILDREN HAVE THE RIGHT TO EDUCATION. IT STARTS WITH YOU

Really a small start of our’s can make a difference in someone’s life………I still remember ,I made a project on child labour last year ,,,,,during research I found a boy named sinku who was working with a dhaba near our college,……..he insisted not to tell his story to labour inspector as otherwise he will loose his job…….u know wat its circumstances which compells child to work,,,,,,,,,we don’t have to stop child labour but we have to stop those circumstances,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

I am planning to make a visit in my nearby schools ,,,,,,anyone who is in solan district can mail me if they want to join,,,,,,,,,,,,and for others plz do spare some tym from your busy schedule and spread this RTE to as many as u can……………..

Thanks and regards

Kiran bhardwaj

Friday, September 24, 2010

Do we have any solution for ayodhya controversy or babri demolition?

Do we have any solution for ayodhya controversy or babri demolition?


Babri Masjid or say Ramjanambhoomi controversy has dominated Indian politics for about decades and became the main issue and it is so controversial and rooted in communal politics that it has polarized Indian people along religious lines. Again the whole ramjanbhoomi and babri controversy is ignited and this time its is on its end point…. but before I get to the other part or other side of babri I think its very important to know that how it all happened and when it all started? As per my knowledge and reading what I found was that Babri mosque was a mosque in ayodhya on ramkot hill .it was destroyed in 1992 when a political rally later developed into a riot involving 150,000 people, ‘’(despite a commitment to the Indian Supreme Court by the rally organisers that the mosque would not be harmed). More than 2000 people were killed in ensuing riots in many major Indian cities thousands lost their lives,. Babri Masjid demolition also resulted in bloody riots in several major cities of the country and Mumbai and Surat riots in December and January 1992-93 surpassed all limits in brutality, killing and raping. By any accounts of Babri Masjid’s demolition and subsequent riots remain the shame of modern secular India and this happened to fulfill the lust of a political party for power.
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As per my reading on wikipedia ,History tell us that it was in 1527 When the Muslim emperor Babur came down from Ferghana , he defeated the Hindu King of Chittodgad, Rana Sangrama and took over the region, leaving his general, Mir Baqi, in charge as viceroy.
Mir Baqi allegedly destroyed the temple at Ayodhya, built by the Hindus to commemorate Rama's birthplace, and built the Babri Masjid, naming it after Emperor Babur. Palaeographic evidence of an older Hindu temple on the site emerged from an inscription on a thick stone slab recovered from the debris of the demolished structure in 1992. Over 260 other artifacts were recovered on the day of demolition, and many point to being part of the ancient temple. The inscription on the slab has 20 lines, 30 shlokas (verses), and is composed in Sanskrit written in the Nagari script..
Till then hindus are fighting for the ramjanambhoomi and are demanding that their temple should be rebuilt there as it was their lord Rama’s birth place…and this protest and agitation lead to that political rally developed into a riot which took more tha 3,000 lives…………but wait controversy is more than it seems………..its not only between hindus and muslims, According to Jain Samata Vahini, a social organization of the Jains, "the only structure that could be found during excavation would be a sixth century Jain temple".
Sohan Mehta, the General Secretary of Jain Samata Vahini, claims that the demolished disputed structure was actually built on the remnants of an ancient Jain temple, and that the excavation by ASI, ordered by Allahabad High Court to settle the Babri Masjid-Ramjanmabhoomi dispute, would prove it.

Mehta quotied writings of 18th century Jain monks stating Ayodhya was the place where five Jain teerthankars, Rishabhdeo, Ajeeth Nath, Abhinandanji, Sumati Nath and Anant Nath, stayed. The ancient city was among the five biggest centres of Jainism and Buddhism prior to 1527.


Now please tell me this land belong to whom? And what decision should we expect from the court ? hindus are saying that the land is their ,muslims says that its there and we all are aware of jains statements too………………the main question which compells me to ponder is are our big big slogans of being secular are true? Are we really secular? Kaisi dharamnikpekshta hai ye k aj bhi 63 sal ki azadi k bad bhi hum ek dusre k sath ek jammen k liye lad rahe hai…………..badte daur k sath insann ki soch aur badti hai vo adhik samjdar hota hai par kya ye hamara durbhagya nahi ki humne apni soch ko badane k jagah aur gira diya ,,,,,,,,,,,,,itne sallo bad bhi hum ye nahi jan paye ki bhagwan ek hai…..us zammen pe chahe mandir ho ya masjid koi farq nahi padta……………kya humne apni sochne ki shakti ko itna jyada gira diya ki hum rajnitigyo ki ye chal bhi na samaj paye k ye sirf chand votes k liye hai/////////

Ayodhya mamle pe sunvayi ko tala ja raha hai ,,,,,,,,,,din b din sunvai ki dates agge badai ja rahi hai lekin kya koi ye soch raha hai ki dates aage badane se kuch nahi hoga nirnay to dena hi hoga aur vo bhi aisa jisse sab santusht ho…………ab prashn ye uthta hai ki aisa kaunsa nirnay hai jisse sab khush rahe,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,mere khyal se aur mere vichar agar aisa koi nirnay hai jo sabko ek sath bandhe rakh sakta hai aur hamare secular hone k dawe ko bhi bacha sakta hai to vo ye hai ki ayodhya ki us bhoomi pe na kewal mandir ya masjid bane balki bharat mai jitney bhi dharma hai un sab dhrmo ka aadar karte hue sarva dhram ka ek aisa bhawan bane jahan har dhram ka aadmi aake puja ,ibadat ya prayer kar sake,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Na jane hum ye kab samjhenge ki Bhagwan, namaz ya grantho ko padne se khush nahi hota vo to hamare ek dusre k prati prem bhav v aadar ko dekhke hi khush rehta hai……..mandir mai Prasad chadane ki bajay agar kisi bhuke ko khana khilaya jaye to vo asli chadava ya ibadat hai,.,,,,,,,,,aur in sabse upar……….kaun hindu ,kaun musalman,kaun jain, kaun sikh aur kaun isai …….agar hum sabki koi pehchan hai to vo hamri bhartiyta hai na ki hamara dharam………hamara dharma aur karam sab bharat hai……………….

Kisi k bhi baato mai aake insaniyat ko na bhule………….bhagwan ne sabko ek jaisa banaya hai aur ye jarur yad rakhe ki yun dharm k nam pe ladne se kisi ko khuda ya ram nahi milne wala…………………


“OUR NATIONALITY IS OUR TRUE IDENTITY AND OUR REAL TEMPLE OR MOSQUE IS OUR NATION, DO WORSHIP YOUR NATION FIRST”

Sunday, May 23, 2010

trafficking of women

Hi everyone…


Tomorrow is women’s day ……I know there will be many discussions, debates on women empowerment, their incredible role in freedom struggle. many will speak about their extraordinary efforts for nation building and some on their compassion,,,,,,,,,,,,,and dats all true too…………women has proved dat they are equal to men…………..


but today I want to talk about that particular class of women who are indulged in prostitution…I want to draw your attention towards the most nefarious and malicious social vice i.e. trafficking of women for commercial sexual exploitation…………

Trafficking is a big menace for our society as well as for nation, many young girls and women’s around the world are lured ,abducted or sold into forced prostitution and involuntarily marriage, they are bartered depending on their age ,beauty and virginity and exploited under conditions that amount to slavery.


The volume of trafficking in women and children in India has risen significantly over the years. Traffickers manipulate Nepal’s poor condition to their advantage. The victims are offered jobs or lured by promises of marriage .Mumbai has the largest number of girls in prostitution according to one estimate.

There are about 20,000 Nepali women in the city’s flesh trade, they were brought by local recruiters and then sold off to brokers who delivered them to brothel owners.

Delhi, the capital of our country has a special role as a hub in trafficking for prostitution.

This is how our women are trafficked and then sold out to brothel keepers. but this is only the one phase ,now lets move on to the other phase of these young girls and women’s , and this phase is about our behavior towards them, social impact of prostitution on them.


Do u know all trafficked women or women involved in prostitution are generally unhappy a disgruntled over the society’s discriminatory attitude. these women’s are looked down by school authorities who are reluctant to allow their children to study in the school because of their mothers .even if the children are given admission , the women are always afraid of their identity playing against their children………


Law enforcing agencies i.e. the lower rung of the police force never really respects them as human beings. They generally use a abusive language with complete disregard for their human rights and insult them frequently…….but tell me, why we disregard them just because they are in dis flesh trade ,right? But have u ever thought who use these women’s? Who forced them to indulge in dis flesh trade? …………..it’s we………….yes its from us, some selfish, barbaric, persons from our society do all dis,,,,,,,,,,,,,but we never complained them,,,,,,,,,,why not to punish them too? We should start denigrating and mocking at our politicians, bureaucrats , businessman’s, spiritual leaders,,,,,,,,,,,,,afterall they are the people who mostly involved in dis trade,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,but no,,,,,,,,,,how can we point out these rascals? Afterall they are VIP’S ,they have a huge back wid them,,,,,,,,,,,,Baba Nityanand, Asaram Bapu, Dera Sacha Sauda’s chief are some of the examples ……………………..


U know what our government authorities also collect substantial revenues in area where prostitution exist illegally from bribes and corruption,

Some months back u might have heard that there was full debate on this topic that should the sex trade legalized/ will it help women?


ILO was supporting the demand for recognizing prostitution as a labour sector by calling it a sex sector/

But the anti legalization lobby feels that exploitation can not be legalized because the basic question is ,can prostration of girls and women, their trafficking, their renting to someone, brothel keeping advertisement of brothels, pimping be legalized?

Trafficking of human beings mainly for sex trade is the third largest organized global crime next only to illegal trade in narcotics and crime even if it is stated that a small section of women wish to do voluntary prostitution and therefore it must be legalized no sane society can entertain such a proposal that exposes its vast young population to the most dangerous crime,,,,,,,,,,,,,



I just want to say that there is a great need of doing something for this social vice…….the voluntary organizations need to involve in a greater measure and they can ensure certain standards of care and reformative treatment that will eventually lead to the rehabilitation of women in prostitution .the role of voluntary agencies can be towards the planning and implementation of integrated programme of awareness education and socio economic upliftment for both preventive and rehabilitative purposes. In attempting to address the phenomenon a reorientation of approach is suggested so as to discourage the exploitative situations in which the women are trapped……………



No women wants to loose her respect………there are situations which force some to indulge in wrong deeds…………………..every person wants to be respected…………..lets join together and save those who are unwillingly,forcibly traped in dis trade…………….they want sympathy, guidance and a hope that they can live a respectful life too………………..

my incredible india lost somewhere

INDIA. My incredible india-A country which is the largest democracy in world
Which is known for its diversification of cultures and religions, a country where people speak more than 1000 languages and dialects and who support more than 20 political parties in the world’s biggest democracy and perhaps boldest experiment in democracy? Where secularism, inequality, integrity are the soul of constitution,. But wait…..

Is this all true? Is our India really incredible? Are we secular and equal? ……….just think over it…………..
I think there’s no need to find answers of these questions anywhere just ask from your heart and you will get a pure answer “NO”

Far from becoming mahaan(great) our nation is going to dogs ,and unless a miracle saves us,the country will break up. Have you ever thought, what is happening in our country? Attacks like 26/11, Dantewada Attack, daily news of killing of innocent people, Tensions in borders. Threatening from international terrorist organizations. And the most pernicious one, home based terror by Naxalites?

I am writing all this because I a m in anger and really depressed on how people are just being killed ,,,,,,,,,and our Govt is behaving as spectators rather than taking actions they are debating in media,,,,,,,,,,
“This is my homeland, I can’t let these miscreants get away with their sinful ideas. I will shout my protest from the roof-tops”

We are living in a nation where government is run by selfish people. for them politics is a profession not a mission, they just for some votes ruining everyone’s life, The biggest challenge to our democracy is religious fanaticism. we Indians have always been more concerned about religion, caste and still we are religious fanaticism, we judge people by their caste and religions which is not only dangerous for mankind but a stigma to our democracy…..

The Indian constitution prohibits discrimination on the grounds only of religion race, caste, sex and place of birth [4by providing equality of opportunity for all citizens, and inequality on caste, job, money should be prohibited ,,,,,,,,,

The question I am asking is Are we really following what has been written in our constitution? Is there equality of opportunity to all Indians? Are we Indians not facing discrimination on the basis of religion, race, Caste and sex?

How can someone point out foreigners for racial discrimination when in our own country we do that…….recent Australian attack were an example, I truly condemn those attacks but just think how can we point out them when we know the reality that in our own country people are being discriminated not only by general people but by our law makers, leaders i.e. our politicians too.

Instead of uniting this diversified India they are creating more tensions by religion, caste and region based politics…. And poor people are being, manipulated for their selfish desired growths. they are told that nobody cares for them, centre parties are neglecting their region, certain religious groups wants to dismantle their religious places etc,,,,, and these propaganda’s for selfish votes and growth proved very successful for these miscreants of democracy ,they targeted unemployed youth and poor by playing with their sentiments and emotions.

The constitution contains special clauses "for the advancement of any socially and educationally backward classes of citizens or for the Scheduled Castes and the Scheduled Tribes”. Separate constituencies allocated to Scheduled Castes and Tribes to ensure their political representation for 10 years.(These were subsequently extended for every 10 years through constitutional amendments).

Don’t u ever think that by exceeding these reservations our politicians are proliferating this inequality? Reservation on caste basis is totally unbearable and unjustified….I know that in the early years lower caste people were not treated well and they were lacking but not now, we are celebrating 62nd year of our independence, we proudly say that we are developing as a developed nation, but are we really developing ?,,,we claim that we are modern, a hi –fi society with top leaders, businessman and that’s somewhere true too….we are as compared to early times are much developed but sorry to say we are not at developed by our thinking? We are still living in that cruel, caste obsessed, society in our mind, we have accepted those modern clothes but not good moral values of modernization.
Now comes our claim to be secular…….our politicians proudly say that we are very secular but are they really one?

There were many incidents when India gone through communalist attacks ,the most disastrous one was ,Babri Demolition on 6th dec,1992, Sikh riots 1984 then Gujrat riots 2002., thousands of innocent people were slaughtered and killed, women’s were raped a, children set on fire ,,,,,,,,,,,I just ponder that how long people of this country will have to bear this? Can’t we live happily? Indian is day by day becoming a battleground of religions and caste. And instead of preventing this region and religion based genocide, Govt is just watching it as Tamasbeens(spectators).and even proliferating it by not giving punishment to these culprits.


Today, riots take place b/w Hindu, Muslim, Sikhs and Christians .caste-Hindus and Harijans, Tribals and non Tribals ,Bengalese and Assamese .in short the entire country is becoming riot prone……are these riots show our integration and secularism.?
Most of us have double standards of judgment,we are unable to see the shortcomings of our own religions but more than eager to see the fatuous in other people faiths.

When I see the stark reality, it just fill me with anger, what strike one in the eye is the impoverishment of the people, which saps their vitality and keeps them undernourished and susceptible to sickness.
India is the world’s most illiterate country. The most populus of our states are the most illiterate to accelerate on the information superhighway with nearly 200 million adults who cannot read signs.
80% of women in these states (UP,BIHAR, RAJASTHAN AND MP) cannot read or write and acc to WHO report points that 80% of Indian women suffer from anemia. Acc to world bank ,65% of India’s under five year olds are malnourished, of 23 million children born every year only 3 million grow up to be physically fit, productive and intellectually capable.
These nightmarish realities should wake up from stupor and indulge in some introspection.
What is wrong with us? Where have things gone wrong? What have to we got to do it?

We have to find answers and have to work for our India to be really developed not only in files but in reality. I know our country has all those qualities and strength which makes India incredible, but we have to overcome these nightmarish realities…………..

Just remember that We can remove, communalism and can really make our nation secular and equal if Once we see the villain in ourselves, I am sure we will take the first step towards securing our future,,,,,,

We cannot wish communalism away, we cannot pretend communal differences are seen only during riots and don’t exist otherwise, they always have and they will in the future. so, we must all, Hindus, Muslims and Christians ,Sikh ,somehow overcome over stereotyped notions of communities other than our own.. We must respect everyone’s religion and should live happily and we can do this only when we work for this
I think we must avoid the tendency to build community based housing societies, schools and clubs, use of media for propagating religion must stop.

We should unequivocally embrace the idea of secularism as defined in our constitution and kick out any govt that is even remotely communal.

For me “India is my caste, my region, religion and identity” and I wish every Indian should have the same ,,,,,,,we our Indians first, ,,,,,,,plz do remember…its nation which makes our identity not our region and religion, nationalism is above than communalism ………..in the end I will just wanted to say that
“ Good life is the only religion ,happiness is the only good, the place to be happy is here; the time to be happy is now, the way to be happy is to help others.”


. “So many gods,so many creeds.
So many paths that wind and wind
When just the art of being kind
is all that the sad world needs”

Kargil war-whose fault?

Kargil war- A war which was an armed conflict between India and Pakistan that took place between May and July 1999 in the Kargil district of Kashmir and elsewhere along the Line of Control (LOC).

History can be cruel companion for events like the Kargil conflict, no matter how momentous. restricted to argued ,remote inhospitable corner of India, it was little surprise that majority of Indians had never heard of Kargil or Drass or tiger hill and Tololing till the media brought it to their homes, when media aired news of the kargil,it was then that everyone realized that Pakistan has attacked us and our tiger hill is occupied with them………… I am writing all this as yesterday I studied “ kargil-the inside story” by Harinder Baweja(journalist)…..and by reading this I remembered all those days of 1999 when kargil war was going on,
I still remember I was in 5th std merely7 years old… when I knew that there is some war going on…hardly I know the meaning of war then, for me it was like a play or game which I was seeing in TV, ,my family all the time kept discussing about war, soldiers and scolding Pakistan…..it was in Kendriya Vidyalaya school(my school) when I came to know from my friends that war is something where people die, I have seen my friends ,my seniors crying and teachers consoling them as in KV mostly army personnel kids study……..

I realized war’s terrible results when our school took us to army hospital in kasauli to meet some of the injured soldiers of kargil who were there for medical treatment, first time I saw blood profusely bleeding from a soldier’s knee…….,there were many without an arm, leg, eye etc………..as a child I just cried and still whenever I remember that incident ,tears come across my eyes……..back at home I told my mother that today I visited army hospital where I saw people without legs and arms, I asked her,” why they don’t have legs and arms,? who did this? ,,,,,,,,,mumma very nicely explained me that they sacrificed their legs, arms, eyes to keep our country safe we are staying happily because they are there fighting for us ,,,,,,,,at that time I was not in a position to understand all this hate and war between two countries……..but now when I think over that war or read books on kargil,,,,,,,I sheiver and I fill with anger that how could they dare to harm us or attack us? I don’t know why but I have this dream that once in my lifetime I want to see these bloody terrorist and at any cost want to shoot them,kill them…

my anger an frustration is not only limited to these barbaric rascals but for our government too….It was stated by one of soldiers that it was 1 Naga who firstly move to Drass almost overnight without time to get used to the rarefield atmosphere and above all, not equipped for high altitude warfare they had no snow shoes, no special clothing required for heights above 12,000 feet .nor did they have local guides. all they were told was that you have to capture the objective by first light, even the maps they were given were photocopies.

There is more to this tragic tale of confusion and neglect, they did not have a single medium machine gun and were issued INSAS rifles, a weapon they were totally unfamiliar with. For counter insurgencies operations they used AK-47.the officers and men of 1 Naga had never trained with these rifles. they didn’t even know its range.
In that confusion such minor matters were brushed aside. but now I just think that how many lives could have been saved? And how many were lost? History will never be able to judge. in the eventual afterglow of victory those responsible for such crass negligence were not even touched .instead they probably were promoted.

On may 29 the Indian air force had joined the battle on may 26and their MIGS had been pounding the heights .but even that had not made too much of difference to the enemy as they were having fantastic fortifications.


what was most surprising that the prime minister had made his famous trip to Lahore only three months earlier. Which only added to the complacency troops along the LOC in Kashmir too had been thinned out. war was certainly not in the minds of army commanders. internal security duties and counter insurgency operations were .not of many possible scenarios chalked out in war games and depicted a situation where Pakistan would switch from sending trained militants to sending army regulars, heavily armed, fortified, well shocked and that too across the height of kargil….in a meticulously planned operation that would remain undetected for weeks…….its really shocking and bizarre that how cheap Pakistan reacted to our proposal of friendship.




What was even more surprising that Indian Govt and top army officials didn’t recognize this as a war ,acc to them it was just a localized affair till 26th may. it was later on may 29 that government and politicians recognized the seriousness of war and then the war got its name- OPERATION VIJAY. But what frustrates me is what about those grueling days between may4 and may 26 when our army men were being slaughtered.


Its really a shame to our intelligence ,RAW and MI(military intelligence) that they didn’t even provided the slightest warning of possible intrusions….well nothing can bring back those brave soldiers who because of government, MI,RAW and top army officials negligence suffered and lead to death,,,,,.
In fact the operational failures which cost so army lives were not even within the ambit of the kargil review committee .with the Pakistan army continuing to infiltrate across the border and the loss of additional soldiers to such attacks ,the issue of operational failures acquire added urgency………
I just want that the sacrifices of so many brave soldiers should not be in vain………..those who are responsible for these failures should get punished…….


My utmost tribute to all those brave hearts who fought for our nation and sacrificed their today for our tomorrow,,,

A 10 year child very truly wrote to our soldiers that , “caring not for your life at the battlefield ,you uphold the nation’s honor every hour .never can we I, as nation ,pay you back for what you have done for us. All we can say is thanks.”
I too wish I also die fighting for my nation. And uphold my nation’s dignity………
Very true and touching these lines are……..really we can never ever pay back those sacrifices by our brave soldiers .A hearty tribute to them.

Well in the end I want to conclude by this inspirational and revengeful dialogue of movie INDIAN that:-

Dudh maangoge to kheer denge ,
Kashmir maangoge to cheer denge”

And I really mean it infact we all Indians mean it.

“Beshak apni jaan bhi khoni pade par kisi ko bhi apne desh ko hathiyane nahi denge”